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The Difference Between a Meltdown and Tantrum

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After my daughter’s diagnosis there was a whole new world we were thrown into I really didn’t understand. That is the world of Autism and Neurodiversity. The world of sensory overload and meltdowns.

Before becoming a mother, I was the typical naïve and judgmental person in the store. The person that did not understand why a child would be having a hard time in the store other than just being spoiled. I didn’t know much about Autism. I had worked some with autistic adults but very limited.

One of the biggest terms to understand about Autism and neurodiversity is the term ‘meltdown’. Meltdowns are often misunderstood and misinterpreted as tantrums. There are, however, differences between the two.

Meltdowns

A child may have a meltdown if they are overwhelmed. They are usually the result of sensory overload. Sensory overload is the overstimulation of one or more of the body’s five senses. A meltdown can be caused by different things for every child. They may look like tantrums at first and may end by either the child wearing themselves out or they are in a better sensory environment.

Tantrums

Tantrums are generally a result to them trying to get something. They are common for toddlers and preschoolers as they learn the language skills to express themselves and learn to control their emotions. They may lash out, yell, and scream and though it may look much like a meltdown they do have control over it. A tantrum can usually end when they get what they want. Tantrums usually will become fewer as they mature.

It’s important for parents of autistic children or children otherwise neuro-divergent to understand the difference between meltdowns and tantrums. If your child is having a meltdown it’s important to help them through the meltdown. Here are some great tips to helping your child through a meltdown.

 

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5 Comments

  1. You’re absolutely right! A meltdown – can be caused by many different things for different kids, and as moms/parents, we have to be able to recognize the difference and deal with them appropriately.

  2. Monica Simpson says:

    This is a good read because often times we think they’re the same when actually they’re very different and should be approached and handled differently.

  3. Kimmy says:

    A meltdown for us is definitely usually due to sensory overload. While quite similar they do have their differences! Great post!

  4. This is such a great way to see the difference. It is important to know so that as a parent, we can deal with what is causing the issue.

  5. thank you so much for this post; definitely useful for parents so we can react accordingly and help more effectively

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